I’m so over pretentious nice guys.
The guys who go on and on about how nice they are and how they get friendzoned and how women only choose bad guys.
The guys who bend over backwards for you, do everything you want and have no opinion.
I’ve tried to date three so called nice guys in my life. I’ve been accused of liking douchebags. Usually by similar nice guys.
The thing is, these guys are all but nice. They’re pretentious with zero self confidence and believe they are gods gift to you.
My experience was always that they were flat, boring, didn’t have their own lives, just did everything I did without an opinion, never argued (even when I broke up with them, the response was just ok) and (the biggest issue for me), after a break up or me letting them know they don’t do it for me, they pull a 180.
They become someone completely different. Angry. Mean. As if whatever friendship you had dissolved into nothing.
In my opinion, these guys just don’t know who they really are. They don’t know what they want.
And the strange thing is that the dbs were always honest. They knew they were dbs.
It’s actually in Neil strauss’ the game on how to pick up women. Be honest.
Darcy is driving me insane at the moment. He’s analysing my every look. Asking me over and over If I’m mad at him. He comments on my stuff on fb and deletes it. Then hell randomly ask if he’s that annoying. Then when I don’t respond to him he’ll say he gets the hint.