So on top of everything said and done, I go to collect my car after leaving it with the bf. I was gone for 4 days. Four. He was mia for most of three days.
On 3 days, when we spoke he made it seem like he just chilled and never really went anywhere. He was asleep. Or his whatsapp was faulty. Or he couldn’t answer his phone.
Today I get my car back and the millage shows he drove over 400 km. 400. That’s over four hours of non traffic driving. I do approximately 1000km a month. And he did 400 in a weekend and never mentioned anything to me.
Am I being irrational and picky for no reason? Am I being psycho by questioning what he was up to?
I know he’s not cheating. I know he’s depressed. I did tell him to take a drive to the beach or something to feel better.
But I expected max 200km used. And 200 is still alot. Especially when he didn’t go to work at all. Especially when he never told me he went anywhere. He just said he’s home and was unavailable to answer his phone for hours on end.
When I asked him now, he mentioned two trips. Said he went to see his godmother in paarl… Which is also where the sidechick stays…. But she hasn’t been in touch with him for atleast two months and I felt the difference.
The two trips would have added max 200km to the clock.
Am I being overbearing by questioning him? Should I just accept that I left him my car and therefore he could do what he wanted.
It also sucks cos he told me he wants to sleep all weekend. When we’re together on weekends he just wants to stay in. And now bamn… 400km. And he bunked work for two days. And he never stayed in touch with me.
Am I an idiot?